Author: Mr E.

Distraction for Inspiration

Are you one of those that needs music, or simply some noise, while working or studying? Well I sure am one of them who writes better with some music or noise at the background. Something not too loud or overpowering, but loud enough to distract me just a little bit. Not that I am not able to write in silence or I dislike quietness, but I tend to get more inspired and somehow ideas flow readily with that morsel of distraction. And if you enjoy writing or reading in a cafe like myself, yet sometimes too lazy to make the trip, you can head over to for your fix of coffee shop chatters and noise, short of that coffee roast smell – I am sure that can be easily solved with a cup of instant coffee beside you. Yea, they are worlds apart, but it is the next best thing you can get without leaving the cosiness of your room. Chanced upon Coffitivity some time ago, the team behind it sure put in a great deal of effort into …

Men Break Down These Walls

3 Self-Built Walls that Are Blocking Intimacy In Your Relationship

These three walls are stopping you from cultivating a Quality Relationship. Break them down now! The love relationship is alike a road trip – a long journey with many turns and pit stops. In this journey you and your partner are bound to encounter a few (or many) bumps. The occasional quarrels are unavoidable. Seldom do we hear of couples whose journey is constantly smooth-riding without a tad of a knock. Yet it is often these ups and downs – falling and picking each other up –  that strengthen the relationship and propels it to greater intimacy. However, when there are walls set up along this journey, their progress will be hindered. The wrecks and crashes that are bound to be suffered will inflict damages that can be as severe as to destroy the relationship.

Being the Right One

5 Steps Towards Being, Instead Of Finding, The Right One

Singlehood – most will read this as the Searching Season, or commonly as the period for finding the Right One. Many hop from places to places, soliciting help from love gurus and even psychics. So much effort just to meet their Mister or Miss Right. Yet, the adage that everything will be bright and sunny once you find the Right One could very much be an urban legend. Very often, the supposedly right person may not appear, leaving the seeker quibbling about their wasted effort. Rather than putting in time and money into a random Search Operation akin to throwing the biggest net you have to catch any fish, why not focus your resources in building yourself, and be the Right person you desire? Be the Right One, and chances of attracting the Right One will be more likely. If you agree with me, here are five steps towards being the Right One:

Three Indicators To Evaluate If You Are Spending Enough Time In Your Relationship

3 Indicators To Evaluate If You Are Spending Enough Time In Your Relationship

How do you spell love? It seems absurd a question when you are already reading it on screen, but as real as it can get, it is also spelt as T-I-M-E. The ever elusive Time, which grows in sprint as we advance in age. Without purposeful management, much time is given to meaningless busyness that leaves vacuums in our lives. And there the love we share with our partner sits in the corner, with undetected coldness creeping on to it until it freezes over. No one desires for this to happen. What if there are warning signals waving for our attention along the route down to Antarctica? Watch out for these signals:

8 Characteristics Of A Wise and Loving Husband

Being a husband is not a honorary title to achieve in life, but a lifelong expedition to learn, discover and uphold. It is a role which not only puts us in a position to receive plenty but one that also requires much of us. Here, we ask, how can we be a wise and loving husband that will bring out the best in our wife? What characteristics can we adopt to establish ourselves as the throne of our wife, allowing her to take her place as the crown of her man?